I am falling for my best friend

I have fallen for my best friend

Girl or guy first thing is to think if you go for this can your risk loosing the friendship. Even if you just want to see if your friend feels the same way your risking it being very awkward between you if they say no. Once you’ve decided if its worth it or not. Or if you decide that If you don’t you’ll always think what if I had said something and they did feel the same way. Then you can either tell them or try to see if they like you in a clever way. You can leave subtle hints even if its just looking at them in a different way or complimenting them more than you usually do for appearance or personality. This will hopefully get their attention.

I’ve seen another option work even though it did not for me. Physical contact increase. This is when you try to allow for more contact between the two of you to see how they react. A hand on the shoulder. A hug, legs or arms rubbing up against each other etc. You can see if they react by letting you continue or by increasing their physical contact with you or if they look at you like your crazy. Advance or not to advance.

Or again there is that way that might work and then again might not. Just tell them and see what happens from there. Tell them that things wont change between you if they don’t return the feelings . Tell them that its just best for me to know now then to keep wondering . Its really hard to do sometimes believe me. It sucks if they don’t too but I think its better to know.