"The two backstabbers and the dirty skank".

What to do when you love a girl but competing with two of your friends?


The consensus on this situation from the people I have talked to are as follows is that it is not something that should go on for too long. The main reason being the girl. 9to the girl)

It’s too much drama for one girl to handle. You cant keep letting these guys fight over you especially if their friends. Them being friends makes it a one way ticket on the crazy train for you girls in this situation.


Here are some possible solutions the guy can make in this situation or the guys.

1. Make the girl choose. It gets it over quickly hopefully you can still stay friends with the other two guys if you are true friends.

2. Talk to the other two guys. Come up with the decision that neither of you should go with her or pick the one that does. No one is really one of the best options in this situation. Especially if your friends with the guys previous to the girl being in the picture. If not its still the least dramafied situation.


3. Basically fight it out get it over with and done . Doesn’t sound like good advice but I know it comes down to that sometimes if people aren’t willing to communicate. Honestly the two above options are better, but I’ve seen a situation where none of the above options have worked because of the certain people involved stubbornness.

Final thing I have to say to the guy is that

She could be leading all three of you or two of you on. If she’s leading you on as my friend on daily booth said “She needs to be slapped“. You don’t play with peoples hearts like that. Any guy in this situation should really consider what the girl is thinking. The song Beating Hearts Baby by Head Automatica is the first thing that comes to mind because of the line, Is this love for real? If its not get the heck out of there as my cousin says. You’ll be heartbroken for a bit but will be able to move on because following is not any better. Trust me on that one. I know.

Kissing on the first date/ kissing

I cant say that you shouldn’t kiss on the first day because it really is based on the person and their situation. I know tons of people who kiss on the first date all the time. I am the type of person who usually doesn’t until the second or third date, but it really does depend on your situation. If you have known the person for an extended amount of time before your first date then its definitely fine. If you just had a really fantastic first date then its fine. Your not a bad person if you kiss on the first date, but if you hold out until the second or third date I think the kiss is better. There’s more passion from the waiting it out. How someone kisses is also a factor in if you want to date someone sometimes. So if you want to know right away no one should blame you. So it really does depend on your preference. As long as I’d say the 5th or 6th date at least you have kissed. Only counting private dates not group dates. At the 5th date you should be ready. Or you need to ask yourself where the relationship is going.

His/her friends hate me (advice)

If you like someone and you think they like you go for it people. Don't let something like the fact that his/her friends hate you get in your way. If that person really likes you it shouldn't matter. When you are together their friends don't need to be around. Spend your time together not on group dates with her friends. If the person you like values their friends opinions that much. You need to get over them and find someone else because its their problem. Don't say but its difficult I really like them. They don't like you enough to choose you over what there friends or family in some cases will think so give up on them. Please if your in this situation take my advice.

Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea