What to do when you love a girl but competing with two of your friends?
The consensus on this situation from the people I have talked to are as follows is that it is not something that should go on for too long. The main reason being the girl. 9to the girl)
It’s too much drama for one girl to handle. You cant keep letting these guys fight over you especially if their friends. Them being friends makes it a one way ticket on the crazy train for you girls in this situation.
Here are some possible solutions the guy can make in this situation or the guys.
1. Make the girl choose. It gets it over quickly hopefully you can still stay friends with the other two guys if you are true friends.
2. Talk to the other two guys. Come up with the decision that neither of you should go with her or pick the one that does. No one is really one of the best options in this situation. Especially if your friends with the guys previous to the girl being in the picture. If not its still the least dramafied situation.
3. Basically fight it out get it over with and done . Doesn’t sound like good advice but I know it comes down to that sometimes if people aren’t willing to communicate. Honestly the two above options are better, but I’ve seen a situation where none of the above options have worked because of the certain people involved stubbornness.
Final thing I have to say to the guy is that
She could be leading all three of you or two of you on. If she’s leading you on as my friend on daily booth said “She needs to be slapped“. You don’t play with peoples hearts like that. Any guy in this situation should really consider what the girl is thinking. The song Beating Hearts Baby by Head Automatica is the first thing that comes to mind because of the line, Is this love for real? If its not get the heck out of there as my cousin says. You’ll be heartbroken for a bit but will be able to move on because following is not any better. Trust me on that one. I know.
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